KIMCHI CUDDLES Tumblr (3.0; @kimchicuddles)https://kimchicuddles.com/broken vessels, shards of light<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="4833" data-orig-width="5971"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/99bbe3dea54db05a0390c579635a0afa/1f6d3b7e09411284-27/s640x960/dbd65378b6d86d0c4ebbb48b350a721d470aa296.jpg" data-orig-height="4833" data-orig-width="5971" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/99bbe3dea54db05a0390c579635a0afa/1f6d3b7e09411284-27/s75x75_c1/57a80cf45eab87dfa4bed240cfd63bbd7f9733b3.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/99bbe3dea54db05a0390c579635a0afa/1f6d3b7e09411284-27/s100x200/706467726771aab3e49ca9807a1b3fae0072c044.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/99bbe3dea54db05a0390c579635a0afa/1f6d3b7e09411284-27/s250x400/32b8a40d6f334add214a064ec461533211c33ecd.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/99bbe3dea54db05a0390c579635a0afa/1f6d3b7e09411284-27/s400x600/cd07562448603bb4b4b15c188037303b0508fc56.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/99bbe3dea54db05a0390c579635a0afa/1f6d3b7e09411284-27/s500x750/e7b6a5596d934b22b6a7efe372f78464429db4e8.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/99bbe3dea54db05a0390c579635a0afa/1f6d3b7e09411284-27/s540x810/555f214f3ed530a43db125748ab408ecc23a124d.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/99bbe3dea54db05a0390c579635a0afa/1f6d3b7e09411284-27/s640x960/dbd65378b6d86d0c4ebbb48b350a721d470aa296.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/99bbe3dea54db05a0390c579635a0afa/1f6d3b7e09411284-27/s1280x1920/8c0df7497df253a04fa39fdb91d40bef230c9f8a.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/99bbe3dea54db05a0390c579635a0afa/1f6d3b7e09411284-27/s2048x3072/e430b43557fe66f675f093733e528e11c1dd308a.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>broken vessels, shards of light</p><p>TikvaWolf.com</p><p>I come from a long line of people who have held too much death</p><p>for one person in one lifetime.</p><p>And they figured out how to be the vessel for that grief without cracking…</p><p>Or maybe they didn’t.</p><p>Perhaps I am the descendent of many broken shards trying to put themselves back together.</p><p>May the source of strength that guided them help me find the courage to keep trying </p><p>to transform this darkness into light.</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/739042263317037056https://kimchicuddles.com/post/739042263317037056Tue, 09 Jan 2024 08:07:05 -0500griefdeathfamily grieftikkun olambroken vesselsHidden light.. Thank you so much for supporting my work!  TikvaWolf.com <div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="4623" data-orig-width="5962"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/cdffe81b6e3b66256275104e0b9f2e76/bb8eb1a2a7ad9650-df/s640x960/65c819f8c8b0d006716c54f85f97ea6bd71e97a0.jpg" data-orig-height="4623" data-orig-width="5962" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/cdffe81b6e3b66256275104e0b9f2e76/bb8eb1a2a7ad9650-df/s75x75_c1/55e059ad70c543a4d257b82e7e045b74e531cb92.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/cdffe81b6e3b66256275104e0b9f2e76/bb8eb1a2a7ad9650-df/s100x200/2b421dd0ad4b2e06495fb57784cbbe99df2bddc2.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/cdffe81b6e3b66256275104e0b9f2e76/bb8eb1a2a7ad9650-df/s250x400/1426ad65ee12aee395154261d80f73866c522658.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/cdffe81b6e3b66256275104e0b9f2e76/bb8eb1a2a7ad9650-df/s400x600/b4a70762c4475c33090c38f7a6096a05001c17ed.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/cdffe81b6e3b66256275104e0b9f2e76/bb8eb1a2a7ad9650-df/s500x750/6ee1d6174face87a5640fd0615eb9012f79e52a0.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/cdffe81b6e3b66256275104e0b9f2e76/bb8eb1a2a7ad9650-df/s540x810/d7fb8d5b5f94898b28855e2b5bf272a80a832eb4.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/cdffe81b6e3b66256275104e0b9f2e76/bb8eb1a2a7ad9650-df/s640x960/65c819f8c8b0d006716c54f85f97ea6bd71e97a0.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/cdffe81b6e3b66256275104e0b9f2e76/bb8eb1a2a7ad9650-df/s1280x1920/30d42fd930e3e95bb2229d65dd9c1eae5bf0e437.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/cdffe81b6e3b66256275104e0b9f2e76/bb8eb1a2a7ad9650-df/s2048x3072/0821b354d4b03391e28d3b3bbc7ca25a4bc41025.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>Hidden light.. <br/>Thank you so much for supporting my work! TikvaWolf.com </p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/736692577047314432https://kimchicuddles.com/post/736692577047314432Thu, 14 Dec 2023 09:39:49 -0500שְׁכַחlighthidden lighttikkun olamlove<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/8c2d380d65114dd77c49f45c629b05c1/24eda4f3dafac59c-37/s640x960/680ee07d2b77b8597d65f7e8ecb4c810af0aac1b.jpg" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/8c2d380d65114dd77c49f45c629b05c1/24eda4f3dafac59c-37/s75x75_c1/7e77c9aca447d6687efa355f590df030b00e2904.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/8c2d380d65114dd77c49f45c629b05c1/24eda4f3dafac59c-37/s100x200/b83c13c76ff961318dc2d7de35eb8d384f05f0df.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/8c2d380d65114dd77c49f45c629b05c1/24eda4f3dafac59c-37/s250x400/b98641570fb55d192417e03c669624e035e1b16e.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/8c2d380d65114dd77c49f45c629b05c1/24eda4f3dafac59c-37/s400x600/fbeed6dacf8128ebf80cb0e7b67f7b3dc2fb4e4c.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/8c2d380d65114dd77c49f45c629b05c1/24eda4f3dafac59c-37/s500x750/5dc821728c12aacb5238a9d1e07cad5356b9fab1.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/8c2d380d65114dd77c49f45c629b05c1/24eda4f3dafac59c-37/s540x810/53d583a361fb3d88e5bd4f89c949ffd33c040125.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/8c2d380d65114dd77c49f45c629b05c1/24eda4f3dafac59c-37/s640x960/680ee07d2b77b8597d65f7e8ecb4c810af0aac1b.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/8c2d380d65114dd77c49f45c629b05c1/24eda4f3dafac59c-37/s1280x1920/c724482aa5f1cf417cdad28c534682ee2f4c2972.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/8c2d380d65114dd77c49f45c629b05c1/24eda4f3dafac59c-37/s2048x3072/192146a2c1e9a779d8d645df59f2660d062029c4.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p><br/></p><p>Reruns while I’m packing up to move AGAIN! But I will be back in full force soon. Thank you so much for supporting my work along the way… Patreon.com/kimchicuddles</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/736414206653595648https://kimchicuddles.com/post/736414206653595648Mon, 11 Dec 2023 07:55:15 -0500grieftraumahealingguardedopen heartSeeing beauty… Thank you so much for supporting my work! I will be slow over the winter while I…<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="4833" data-orig-width="5971"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/68386205be7eca3c6f3769dc7861cfd4/1aef8dd17dda07da-62/s640x960/0ec2821057f095f910a6180c421c24a17dcc396d.jpg" data-orig-height="4833" data-orig-width="5971" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/68386205be7eca3c6f3769dc7861cfd4/1aef8dd17dda07da-62/s75x75_c1/90852cf66f7bd99512e82569cbaf8eb42737f7fb.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/68386205be7eca3c6f3769dc7861cfd4/1aef8dd17dda07da-62/s100x200/c132e03dce01df83de7a61cac4f9883e10566a95.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/68386205be7eca3c6f3769dc7861cfd4/1aef8dd17dda07da-62/s250x400/c05cf7f70bafecb5fbb6157473b23b4c0dc1bf57.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/68386205be7eca3c6f3769dc7861cfd4/1aef8dd17dda07da-62/s400x600/c06c22c055625e1535f09a1b5de8dd51c8c26a4a.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/68386205be7eca3c6f3769dc7861cfd4/1aef8dd17dda07da-62/s500x750/74305199d6c803d92d402b49940b25696d95459a.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/68386205be7eca3c6f3769dc7861cfd4/1aef8dd17dda07da-62/s540x810/15d99a0efe7a65875489c77fca090ad317a88046.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/68386205be7eca3c6f3769dc7861cfd4/1aef8dd17dda07da-62/s640x960/0ec2821057f095f910a6180c421c24a17dcc396d.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/68386205be7eca3c6f3769dc7861cfd4/1aef8dd17dda07da-62/s1280x1920/c5ebe44b3c9dee0e3c02a2dbfbdb4054c863c202.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/68386205be7eca3c6f3769dc7861cfd4/1aef8dd17dda07da-62/s2048x3072/6e6def7c7bd5f4a0ef54a7e858881129fe2f7b8c.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>Seeing beauty…<br/>Thank you so much for supporting my work! I will be slow over the winter while I move to a new apartment to integrate families. Stay tuned, and keep up with behind the scenes on Patreon! <a href="https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/patreon.com/kimchicuddles" target="_blank">patreon.com/kimchicuddles</a></p><p>text reads:</p><p>I hope one day you can see how beautiful you are.</p><p>And that the ugliness others try to point at in your direction is not a reflection of YOU, </p><p>but of their own inability to see what beauty even is.</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/735802287476310016https://kimchicuddles.com/post/735802287476310016Mon, 04 Dec 2023 13:49:03 -0500beautylovetrue beautyProcessing grief.. Thank you for supporting my work ❤ TikvaWolf.com<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="4833" data-orig-width="5971"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/e32afb9260a6cbf84a50e7b6366a40fe/a46e9ffade44c9e1-18/s640x960/1f586a4d39013331615af4b169beb2479a30584e.jpg" data-orig-height="4833" data-orig-width="5971" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/e32afb9260a6cbf84a50e7b6366a40fe/a46e9ffade44c9e1-18/s75x75_c1/2be5241b55e3890cc86a18e1ffeb45de95d6407b.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/e32afb9260a6cbf84a50e7b6366a40fe/a46e9ffade44c9e1-18/s100x200/3f8948ab12c508188de7ca4496abdd48399a5ea7.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/e32afb9260a6cbf84a50e7b6366a40fe/a46e9ffade44c9e1-18/s250x400/1fb60747028722936a0d7cb63944fb078948c6ca.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/e32afb9260a6cbf84a50e7b6366a40fe/a46e9ffade44c9e1-18/s400x600/a854d63581e3c065ce464c34384c31422917a80e.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/e32afb9260a6cbf84a50e7b6366a40fe/a46e9ffade44c9e1-18/s500x750/851e6d8b16e4b918bc210ca22a486af1afbd5352.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/e32afb9260a6cbf84a50e7b6366a40fe/a46e9ffade44c9e1-18/s540x810/8392738fa986c32d0cf5f6ac7a2b4d35caebfdfc.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/e32afb9260a6cbf84a50e7b6366a40fe/a46e9ffade44c9e1-18/s640x960/1f586a4d39013331615af4b169beb2479a30584e.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/e32afb9260a6cbf84a50e7b6366a40fe/a46e9ffade44c9e1-18/s1280x1920/2a60db75c7dde836d12906ef1a9914d069a94b20.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/e32afb9260a6cbf84a50e7b6366a40fe/a46e9ffade44c9e1-18/s2048x3072/581ed789b857b88cff7123353e5c79dee3156f99.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>Processing grief..<br/>Thank you for supporting my work<br/>❤ TikvaWolf.com</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/735149180323020800https://kimchicuddles.com/post/735149180323020800Mon, 27 Nov 2023 08:48:11 -0500griefhealingtraumaprocessing griefprocessing emotions<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="4833" data-orig-width="5971"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/70542730bd510fc6c839f4536bf6dc6d/3706d396e48aadfc-c8/s640x960/0742b0159f9f346350092dd379a07f0eeb2c7abb.jpg" data-orig-height="4833" data-orig-width="5971" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/70542730bd510fc6c839f4536bf6dc6d/3706d396e48aadfc-c8/s75x75_c1/938d0c132aca51e526927d2ef6d7aaa69288d914.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/70542730bd510fc6c839f4536bf6dc6d/3706d396e48aadfc-c8/s100x200/d08d97896d477a96c1654e4c4be9efd4af5e018b.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/70542730bd510fc6c839f4536bf6dc6d/3706d396e48aadfc-c8/s250x400/59e5b26e30bd40a0e4c070700cfd0e711304d472.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/70542730bd510fc6c839f4536bf6dc6d/3706d396e48aadfc-c8/s400x600/d6588e4db5c80bd470d4ff761045fcf4ac845ae5.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/70542730bd510fc6c839f4536bf6dc6d/3706d396e48aadfc-c8/s500x750/777575cf7cf3e2e28e3a2a41ef5aec8136ad38eb.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/70542730bd510fc6c839f4536bf6dc6d/3706d396e48aadfc-c8/s540x810/48be02d8630a724897c344d38382fe473302997d.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/70542730bd510fc6c839f4536bf6dc6d/3706d396e48aadfc-c8/s640x960/0742b0159f9f346350092dd379a07f0eeb2c7abb.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/70542730bd510fc6c839f4536bf6dc6d/3706d396e48aadfc-c8/s1280x1920/8080988493c235292703faca25358bc77eff83b8.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/70542730bd510fc6c839f4536bf6dc6d/3706d396e48aadfc-c8/s2048x3072/9b9f2c26a3df067d2f7f487c795ec7353753a76a.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p><br/></p><p>Based on my mother’s dreams…</p><p>Thank you for supporting my work <a href="http://patreon.com/kimchicuddles" target="_blank">patreon.com/kimchicuddles</a></p><p>text reads:</p><p>She told me she’d been having dreams about her grandmother braiding a secret family name into her hair, because it wasn’t safe to hold it in her mouth.</p><p>And sometimes when my head feels heavy, I wonder if it is a similar gathering of ancient whispers trying to remind me of who I am.</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/734874813681811456https://kimchicuddles.com/post/734874813681811456Fri, 24 Nov 2023 08:07:15 -0500dreamsfamilyjewishbraidsgrandmotherThrowback Thursday. Planting Seeds 🌱<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="1434" data-orig-width="2048"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/86446fd4fde15302ed9a138e82909fea/2648e3da9d31a966-9e/s640x960/3aae02c2f744bf5722d643426862e2f0afbf6f1d.jpg" data-orig-height="1434" data-orig-width="2048" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/86446fd4fde15302ed9a138e82909fea/2648e3da9d31a966-9e/s75x75_c1/148f810accbc062ea4ddbe777c4c19b494d64c92.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/86446fd4fde15302ed9a138e82909fea/2648e3da9d31a966-9e/s100x200/a73ed8d156ad4c1151a8ad4fc337bfc8deeec797.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/86446fd4fde15302ed9a138e82909fea/2648e3da9d31a966-9e/s250x400/34f05c7285f09b3b321f9187331423b409fe72ae.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/86446fd4fde15302ed9a138e82909fea/2648e3da9d31a966-9e/s400x600/af962513f7631bf0d4f52a106c9a8ba8f3135756.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/86446fd4fde15302ed9a138e82909fea/2648e3da9d31a966-9e/s500x750/56b254cb1653d053db7f315d578e14ca0cabfe56.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/86446fd4fde15302ed9a138e82909fea/2648e3da9d31a966-9e/s540x810/70a922443b348df1ef00b568075af2148659ab34.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/86446fd4fde15302ed9a138e82909fea/2648e3da9d31a966-9e/s640x960/3aae02c2f744bf5722d643426862e2f0afbf6f1d.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/86446fd4fde15302ed9a138e82909fea/2648e3da9d31a966-9e/s1280x1920/d534b117ccf45c12ef8cbfaf8371070297cfd589.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/86446fd4fde15302ed9a138e82909fea/2648e3da9d31a966-9e/s2048x3072/0cf8a9de59abe64dba5a41c10fbd77cb99c2f9ba.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>Throwback Thursday. Planting Seeds 🌱</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/733526941204955136https://kimchicuddles.com/post/733526941204955136Thu, 09 Nov 2023 11:03:24 -0500traumahealingfeelingsburied feelingsRent went up so I’m scrambling to move again. Throwing me a dollar on patreon would really help!<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/3732a4a5f0691316a7608c3805fa8bbd/bbd3a2dbb3470aa3-00/s640x960/f8f20f2bf354e69be25bde68c38438c1e53f45f6.jpg" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/3732a4a5f0691316a7608c3805fa8bbd/bbd3a2dbb3470aa3-00/s75x75_c1/bd8cac442b6f417f27f80885bd79021f93774a44.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/3732a4a5f0691316a7608c3805fa8bbd/bbd3a2dbb3470aa3-00/s100x200/7503258789b856adf729cafca81649d7734a6964.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/3732a4a5f0691316a7608c3805fa8bbd/bbd3a2dbb3470aa3-00/s250x400/330a9c9cd0b8d92e53109e451375d188587b0438.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/3732a4a5f0691316a7608c3805fa8bbd/bbd3a2dbb3470aa3-00/s400x600/09228e7ed1b504edf5942586627445aa3b7510fb.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/3732a4a5f0691316a7608c3805fa8bbd/bbd3a2dbb3470aa3-00/s500x750/403db9f1997f43f17b9f5b719f266cfd0ae6f33b.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/3732a4a5f0691316a7608c3805fa8bbd/bbd3a2dbb3470aa3-00/s540x810/e27db2d4b99a71aff2a4bdd7a94342657834ccb0.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/3732a4a5f0691316a7608c3805fa8bbd/bbd3a2dbb3470aa3-00/s640x960/f8f20f2bf354e69be25bde68c38438c1e53f45f6.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/3732a4a5f0691316a7608c3805fa8bbd/bbd3a2dbb3470aa3-00/s1280x1920/047c6a7a67acb3b69a8e9f0841064049d9574805.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/3732a4a5f0691316a7608c3805fa8bbd/bbd3a2dbb3470aa3-00/s2048x3072/0923a897928fd5f88da9171841d1088ddc4ff912.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>Rent went up so I’m scrambling to move again. Throwing me a dollar on patreon would really help!</p><p>Thank you so much for supporting my work 🥰 <a href="http://patreon.com/kimchicuddles" target="_blank">patreon.com/kimchicuddles</a></p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/733350959952150528https://kimchicuddles.com/post/733350959952150528Tue, 07 Nov 2023 12:26:15 -0500being eatenabusive relationshipsurvivorconfusing relationshiptoxic relationshipTrying to pick up my broken heart, and standing next to you as we light candles<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/47f73f29068b835a58e621dbd5ed6436/d08183de0afcf131-db/s640x960/01d7ccee4e0d0c83746092708bc49065acd2e054.jpg" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/47f73f29068b835a58e621dbd5ed6436/d08183de0afcf131-db/s75x75_c1/641656e9c3bfc3796b5f359a3716d0e6b88a48ac.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/47f73f29068b835a58e621dbd5ed6436/d08183de0afcf131-db/s100x200/164af428a15edb97899c365b4262f00f41f43c8a.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/47f73f29068b835a58e621dbd5ed6436/d08183de0afcf131-db/s250x400/f666f53b2432eb6c67f34ca048e67dc5c4244c86.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/47f73f29068b835a58e621dbd5ed6436/d08183de0afcf131-db/s400x600/4a746c4c55ef7f051f90b27ef4590a13f99a5a83.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/47f73f29068b835a58e621dbd5ed6436/d08183de0afcf131-db/s500x750/3f2991bb8f5b02a69d91659d85f45fe18deee14d.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/47f73f29068b835a58e621dbd5ed6436/d08183de0afcf131-db/s540x810/9c5838ca866dc431b92fc909c1cbb47c91aad839.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/47f73f29068b835a58e621dbd5ed6436/d08183de0afcf131-db/s640x960/01d7ccee4e0d0c83746092708bc49065acd2e054.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/47f73f29068b835a58e621dbd5ed6436/d08183de0afcf131-db/s1280x1920/b4c52d869e4199d0b652c4db41e8ab46cb5ffe2c.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/47f73f29068b835a58e621dbd5ed6436/d08183de0afcf131-db/s2048x3072/71a2684d876ab850b034d9231d43f15d96d91602.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>Trying to pick up my broken heart, and standing next to you as we light candles</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/732353201002725376https://kimchicuddles.com/post/732353201002725376Fri, 27 Oct 2023 13:07:18 -0400shabbat shalompeacegriefWhat is the correct container of grief?<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="4833" data-orig-width="5971"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/d3b18dd009cf487cb8834cb1ff2d1796/333eeba58dcc51ec-75/s640x960/e9aa8a46e90a5cfb9f3259bf370ba8dd7bc7c793.jpg" data-orig-height="4833" data-orig-width="5971" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/d3b18dd009cf487cb8834cb1ff2d1796/333eeba58dcc51ec-75/s75x75_c1/9a7a190c901fed12b6fb9424c2ff74a64a96c787.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/d3b18dd009cf487cb8834cb1ff2d1796/333eeba58dcc51ec-75/s100x200/8d7ec8682ddabbed2cd5d1e195fe12d50b933e82.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/d3b18dd009cf487cb8834cb1ff2d1796/333eeba58dcc51ec-75/s250x400/f7d63dae7f1f1cd138db6fa2c98ca8f59cd43d91.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/d3b18dd009cf487cb8834cb1ff2d1796/333eeba58dcc51ec-75/s400x600/5bb61d389ae7865c7f9a66513c552eb931416d14.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/d3b18dd009cf487cb8834cb1ff2d1796/333eeba58dcc51ec-75/s500x750/0db7ff14abd6468c4bfaf6346d8135ce8a9e6972.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/d3b18dd009cf487cb8834cb1ff2d1796/333eeba58dcc51ec-75/s540x810/7ddebbc8a50fd83e2498a3fae5dd2b1cc0b31827.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/d3b18dd009cf487cb8834cb1ff2d1796/333eeba58dcc51ec-75/s640x960/e9aa8a46e90a5cfb9f3259bf370ba8dd7bc7c793.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/d3b18dd009cf487cb8834cb1ff2d1796/333eeba58dcc51ec-75/s1280x1920/9e42469fbb15472d9d89f94451607a4ba4d25fc3.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/d3b18dd009cf487cb8834cb1ff2d1796/333eeba58dcc51ec-75/s2048x3072/64719edd842a78225e11ed68e289496cf4165fe5.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>What is the correct container of grief?</p><p>When your brothers’ bodies are not bodies anymore, but fodder in an argument,</p><p>For your grief to be turned into a weapon against others, or against you, but most likely both.</p><p>And before you can even bury the bodies you must justify your overwhelming pain</p><p>As if grief is a competition rather than a shared tragedy.</p><p>What is the correct container of grief</p><p>When what you need to express is rage at a government that commits atrocities in the name of your safety?</p><p>When the ones you grieve didn’t have the right names to matter to the people who matter to you?</p><p>Your grief is yours, housed within your own body.</p><p>And you need to feel the corners of it before it turns to poison, </p><p>and you need to give it a voice before the screaming deafens your heart,</p><p>no matter how many people in your “safe” spaces tell you </p><p>to swallow it,</p><p>because it’s not the right shape or size,</p><p>for what they think your body has a right to feel.</p><p>But they have bought the lie that one history needs to be erased for another’s to matter, </p><p>and there needs to be a “winner” in a situation that was set up for everyone to lose,</p><p>that there’s a simple one-size-fits-all explanation of the complexity of the region</p><p>that can be understood from memes and maps that don’t tell even half the story.</p><p>What is the correct container of grief?</p><p>Your body already knows</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/731352905034121216https://kimchicuddles.com/post/731352905034121216Mon, 16 Oct 2023 12:08:01 -0400israel palestine wargrieffamily tragedydeathholding griefGrieving immense tragedy. Holding all our broken families in my heart and praying for true peace.<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/14001699aa1786e93e37d1d56069e379/66b1399d06120234-95/s640x960/7a897a8ffbdd89a68052d112e474b26c8fee4bcd.jpg" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/14001699aa1786e93e37d1d56069e379/66b1399d06120234-95/s75x75_c1/6c27b70912fbd01907c2e7079ef1bdca6b4d0bde.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/14001699aa1786e93e37d1d56069e379/66b1399d06120234-95/s100x200/8cc62fe6b43208cf1f2a622016767bdc47d03f86.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/14001699aa1786e93e37d1d56069e379/66b1399d06120234-95/s250x400/5ce522a3dd27e0ade0597db4630777933fc7a7ad.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/14001699aa1786e93e37d1d56069e379/66b1399d06120234-95/s400x600/c44200d31548f249bd06e3ad46277743eb7f8111.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/14001699aa1786e93e37d1d56069e379/66b1399d06120234-95/s500x750/5ce186ed9869ef5aaf7a184e17a04411eeeabb2d.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/14001699aa1786e93e37d1d56069e379/66b1399d06120234-95/s540x810/a43fed851f6144ec1a8abf5a099d102cda99943f.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/14001699aa1786e93e37d1d56069e379/66b1399d06120234-95/s640x960/7a897a8ffbdd89a68052d112e474b26c8fee4bcd.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/14001699aa1786e93e37d1d56069e379/66b1399d06120234-95/s1280x1920/228f4ef971e86922d713d48add2d502948242a8a.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/14001699aa1786e93e37d1d56069e379/66b1399d06120234-95/s2048x3072/c12ab53394cff0cf6eda823f9c9498d775f5c1a7.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>Grieving immense tragedy. Holding all our broken families in my heart and praying for true peace.</p><p><a href="http://patreon.com/kimchicuddles" target="_blank">patreon.com/kimchicuddles</a></p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/730724621746339840https://kimchicuddles.com/post/730724621746339840Mon, 09 Oct 2023 13:41:44 -0400Everything is cyclical. When I wrote this one a year ago, my heart had a lot of sadness that needed…<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/ceb1aeb8e27f18fcf2cc5515da9271d9/e974de469de328e7-cf/s640x960/d5cecd4255de7ac897c4a3ac8dac56af40c7a2e3.jpg" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/ceb1aeb8e27f18fcf2cc5515da9271d9/e974de469de328e7-cf/s75x75_c1/f155501c169d648039f74d4dcb010869dd2bcb6b.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/ceb1aeb8e27f18fcf2cc5515da9271d9/e974de469de328e7-cf/s100x200/23550f8bcb7017c89c516373f92dd6cda4a1e1a2.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/ceb1aeb8e27f18fcf2cc5515da9271d9/e974de469de328e7-cf/s250x400/23d41fbc66d61f260c83ed7255c407ef0c256aee.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/ceb1aeb8e27f18fcf2cc5515da9271d9/e974de469de328e7-cf/s400x600/4350e624aca735daec89a136ec8973adaf32b455.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/ceb1aeb8e27f18fcf2cc5515da9271d9/e974de469de328e7-cf/s500x750/0dbb8eaa2214cadda34907446ce4235be2d5e5ee.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/ceb1aeb8e27f18fcf2cc5515da9271d9/e974de469de328e7-cf/s540x810/272978cfac24b13b709b06e78d0b70248ee888d0.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/ceb1aeb8e27f18fcf2cc5515da9271d9/e974de469de328e7-cf/s640x960/d5cecd4255de7ac897c4a3ac8dac56af40c7a2e3.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/ceb1aeb8e27f18fcf2cc5515da9271d9/e974de469de328e7-cf/s1280x1920/2ddf3f0230f8c2fe2734f791ad66115a5a163021.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/ceb1aeb8e27f18fcf2cc5515da9271d9/e974de469de328e7-cf/s2048x3072/27edec82195581d32974448aff9b1bd9d7103702.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>Everything is cyclical. When I wrote this one a year ago, my heart had a lot of sadness that needed to be held. And now I’m noticing how much joy has replaced the spaces that I made for it to be held in.</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/730372417108738048https://kimchicuddles.com/post/730372417108738048Thu, 05 Oct 2023 16:23:35 -0400griefloveopen heartsukkotSource of strength… ❤ TikvaWolf.com for commissions, books, games, patreon perks and behind the…<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="5777" data-orig-width="6210"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/4f320c025956911aef70218d48698ba1/22551d42277b60df-81/s640x960/287091c8142658e2906a5cccf5d9c620b3e0f848.jpg" data-orig-height="5777" data-orig-width="6210" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/4f320c025956911aef70218d48698ba1/22551d42277b60df-81/s75x75_c1/c25ce844cf5a3d85334fa5403f308685007ce26b.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/4f320c025956911aef70218d48698ba1/22551d42277b60df-81/s100x200/9ead9c2bd46b6213a19b0c0f58e7553a6afe6744.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/4f320c025956911aef70218d48698ba1/22551d42277b60df-81/s250x400/6faab3349c189bcfcf5bdd73a637634e5f628dbe.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/4f320c025956911aef70218d48698ba1/22551d42277b60df-81/s400x600/7b75d42a12ae680880367f192b0668e3edf03806.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/4f320c025956911aef70218d48698ba1/22551d42277b60df-81/s500x750/3140b225d8fbf1101651404449ad0c904b906264.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/4f320c025956911aef70218d48698ba1/22551d42277b60df-81/s540x810/ba643d8bcf5eab45033ddb187628f56cdbc28b89.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/4f320c025956911aef70218d48698ba1/22551d42277b60df-81/s640x960/287091c8142658e2906a5cccf5d9c620b3e0f848.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/4f320c025956911aef70218d48698ba1/22551d42277b60df-81/s1280x1920/82bc5db7b4b30b39767222f8ce530a5b1390e1ff.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/4f320c025956911aef70218d48698ba1/22551d42277b60df-81/s2048x3072/3b15d11ce30c14da0c3d2c392a81b8c3c7d4f6d7.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>Source of strength…<br/>❤ <a href="https://tikvawolf.com/" target="_blank">TikvaWolf.com</a> for commissions, books, games, patreon perks and behind the scenes, and more!</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/729712836009459712https://kimchicuddles.com/post/729712836009459712Thu, 28 Sep 2023 09:39:50 -0400birthgriefstrugglepainhope<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/92dbac0e85f0d6d2893b1cc5501a8aa7/6f2cadc90ef30fef-f7/s640x960/519fe1825b48e388906c43d2fcd164825911cbef.jpg" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/92dbac0e85f0d6d2893b1cc5501a8aa7/6f2cadc90ef30fef-f7/s75x75_c1/5e9074288bedb1c101d82587481aa2b12ef8ac5f.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/92dbac0e85f0d6d2893b1cc5501a8aa7/6f2cadc90ef30fef-f7/s100x200/dd47bf0d9c13f977cfc6224fcdd428a0d266a269.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/92dbac0e85f0d6d2893b1cc5501a8aa7/6f2cadc90ef30fef-f7/s250x400/40939ac40478aa13860b4ece1daac49b63740fb9.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/92dbac0e85f0d6d2893b1cc5501a8aa7/6f2cadc90ef30fef-f7/s400x600/aa935506953b1a539f41f8fada10eceab5072c06.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/92dbac0e85f0d6d2893b1cc5501a8aa7/6f2cadc90ef30fef-f7/s500x750/ad402feb52f20a3ff8c5cd652239b93eec33bcc5.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/92dbac0e85f0d6d2893b1cc5501a8aa7/6f2cadc90ef30fef-f7/s540x810/066899e1e564a3d84a3ffcaf63e628765b95e76a.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/92dbac0e85f0d6d2893b1cc5501a8aa7/6f2cadc90ef30fef-f7/s640x960/519fe1825b48e388906c43d2fcd164825911cbef.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/92dbac0e85f0d6d2893b1cc5501a8aa7/6f2cadc90ef30fef-f7/s1280x1920/3b544e9a2bd8f189d7c4b7e87cddff3215413dc9.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/92dbac0e85f0d6d2893b1cc5501a8aa7/6f2cadc90ef30fef-f7/s2048x3072/7a5eec3adaec3964fb644121a8de89915c0949e2.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/729634495949684736https://kimchicuddles.com/post/729634495949684736Wed, 27 Sep 2023 12:54:39 -0400miraclesyom kippurhigh holidaysgratitudelife is fragileLove lost.. TikvaWolf.com for commissions, books, games, patreon perks and behind the scenes, and…<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/eb6b2b0baa4c414e074ae0e662f4d07a/eb25d088702713f1-e8/s640x960/72e39ecf78465cc0942e5719abb1d1d505166b50.jpg" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/eb6b2b0baa4c414e074ae0e662f4d07a/eb25d088702713f1-e8/s75x75_c1/8a6ad58f6eb52f34e9c10420dca4d4878ea7ce3b.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/eb6b2b0baa4c414e074ae0e662f4d07a/eb25d088702713f1-e8/s100x200/a56f2531d71fd5ec27c00bee316be0fe8bfc1727.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/eb6b2b0baa4c414e074ae0e662f4d07a/eb25d088702713f1-e8/s250x400/acbcdf653db00fc1057197f2309753af006da901.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/eb6b2b0baa4c414e074ae0e662f4d07a/eb25d088702713f1-e8/s400x600/1dd64bc91f41d18f5e617e1d7a85f388983ab8dd.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/eb6b2b0baa4c414e074ae0e662f4d07a/eb25d088702713f1-e8/s500x750/b93f492309f046754de727a9efd5d3f68dcaecb6.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/eb6b2b0baa4c414e074ae0e662f4d07a/eb25d088702713f1-e8/s540x810/c93db20e582607acde5c6ad8be121d32f2e9f0e6.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/eb6b2b0baa4c414e074ae0e662f4d07a/eb25d088702713f1-e8/s640x960/72e39ecf78465cc0942e5719abb1d1d505166b50.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/eb6b2b0baa4c414e074ae0e662f4d07a/eb25d088702713f1-e8/s1280x1920/581d42eb5a5b71d837f243547f0ece47276a5fc8.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/eb6b2b0baa4c414e074ae0e662f4d07a/eb25d088702713f1-e8/s2048x3072/fff28e09d0f52c80a7b51f236565c3a12a228520.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>Love lost..<br/><a href="https://tikvawolf.com/" target="_blank">TikvaWolf.com</a> for commissions, books, games, patreon perks and behind the scenes, and more!</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/728911176875016192https://kimchicuddles.com/post/728911176875016192Tue, 19 Sep 2023 13:17:48 -0400lovelost lovedeathgriefbreakupTHROWBACK TUESDAY or something. A fan recently reminded me about this oldie but goodie! Thanks,…<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="1020" data-orig-width="1280"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/34ba59917cee574f17e31c0e4d91225d/2caacbde66ee73db-46/s640x960/df97c9787791e1e9878eaee5a3b5fc5445dc5c25.jpg" data-orig-height="1020" data-orig-width="1280" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/34ba59917cee574f17e31c0e4d91225d/2caacbde66ee73db-46/s75x75_c1/fa1ab3173f9eba245236b39e84359a01a10cea47.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/34ba59917cee574f17e31c0e4d91225d/2caacbde66ee73db-46/s100x200/bf22c85a662055a7e019ba18c08245f68455d6f4.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/34ba59917cee574f17e31c0e4d91225d/2caacbde66ee73db-46/s250x400/e0d4d5020b38181498333bc9c224bf981187f82a.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/34ba59917cee574f17e31c0e4d91225d/2caacbde66ee73db-46/s400x600/62dcad9bff2648bc72d3c368f20c02af24287aa9.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/34ba59917cee574f17e31c0e4d91225d/2caacbde66ee73db-46/s500x750/09fe089968eae0b374087e03d4ccce78d994fdd8.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/34ba59917cee574f17e31c0e4d91225d/2caacbde66ee73db-46/s540x810/f562fb555600cdb90f53b97a2d234f6840a405d4.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/34ba59917cee574f17e31c0e4d91225d/2caacbde66ee73db-46/s640x960/df97c9787791e1e9878eaee5a3b5fc5445dc5c25.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/34ba59917cee574f17e31c0e4d91225d/2caacbde66ee73db-46/s1280x1920/d71d6670d71e2fc2fe1f78bde64cf7da4bc7683e.jpg 1280w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>THROWBACK TUESDAY or something. A fan recently reminded me about this oldie but goodie! Thanks, Dave! And thanks to everyone this may (or may not be) about lol. V A G U E</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/728272089038143488https://kimchicuddles.com/post/728272089038143488Tue, 12 Sep 2023 11:59:46 -0400vague lifeRArelationship anarchynonhierarchicalplatonic partners<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/48ab50505caa59b0ae1f79f2b3dd1ff5/f864bd8f593664a8-69/s640x960/08f88ba4461e23ea5c9f99690303aa3f8800d94c.jpg" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/48ab50505caa59b0ae1f79f2b3dd1ff5/f864bd8f593664a8-69/s75x75_c1/4a91e0f684a08a6a44f155af8d892bb4ed91823c.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/48ab50505caa59b0ae1f79f2b3dd1ff5/f864bd8f593664a8-69/s100x200/eed360bdc5524f3c12bd6411d4d5df70441b0d51.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/48ab50505caa59b0ae1f79f2b3dd1ff5/f864bd8f593664a8-69/s250x400/b8bbe6da5e2dbf63c41b91ea7dfa825b7e95df3b.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/48ab50505caa59b0ae1f79f2b3dd1ff5/f864bd8f593664a8-69/s400x600/54f105836e24bbeae59c74d60f7dff322e499175.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/48ab50505caa59b0ae1f79f2b3dd1ff5/f864bd8f593664a8-69/s500x750/c22b12fcfc50fd8dced708ff66b13046044a3965.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/48ab50505caa59b0ae1f79f2b3dd1ff5/f864bd8f593664a8-69/s540x810/68de8bfb82e76b2edd985ada30dd43d85de0ce1a.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/48ab50505caa59b0ae1f79f2b3dd1ff5/f864bd8f593664a8-69/s640x960/08f88ba4461e23ea5c9f99690303aa3f8800d94c.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/48ab50505caa59b0ae1f79f2b3dd1ff5/f864bd8f593664a8-69/s1280x1920/0270dda7289fd6f8288ed6ab97973a1a57474e9f.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/48ab50505caa59b0ae1f79f2b3dd1ff5/f864bd8f593664a8-69/s2048x3072/24d02f54442ba23ff52043127544a63aece970ff.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p><br/></p><p>What’s important off the escalator?<br/><a href="https://tikvawolf.com/" target="_blank">TikvaWolf.com </a> for commissions, books, games, patreon perks and behind the scenes, and more!</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/728179936157925376https://kimchicuddles.com/post/728179936157925376Mon, 11 Sep 2023 11:35:02 -0400RArelationship escalatorrelationship anarchyOn hierarchy and honesty… TikvaWolf.com for commissions, books, patreon, and more<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/04d0e41c1f1aaaaa72f8dcdccff56ea1/64e414a8269a5b51-f8/s640x960/3df99ac28da7fe00a9e1e584cef81b98b945e345.jpg" data-orig-height="6006" data-orig-width="7537" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/04d0e41c1f1aaaaa72f8dcdccff56ea1/64e414a8269a5b51-f8/s75x75_c1/aad833d8d4c834c541e8a88b609edd304a8fe9a0.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/04d0e41c1f1aaaaa72f8dcdccff56ea1/64e414a8269a5b51-f8/s100x200/6bb463b3685dfe3dc5f43fed7776d5ca95b2cafc.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/04d0e41c1f1aaaaa72f8dcdccff56ea1/64e414a8269a5b51-f8/s250x400/95dc84ef41f5f2e332a255e242a6ededc6c9ff5b.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/04d0e41c1f1aaaaa72f8dcdccff56ea1/64e414a8269a5b51-f8/s400x600/fb248057be754922ee8ebea3ec196910fc3d9413.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/04d0e41c1f1aaaaa72f8dcdccff56ea1/64e414a8269a5b51-f8/s500x750/03be55e90753c8d668b28e538acbe249d2f45f26.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/04d0e41c1f1aaaaa72f8dcdccff56ea1/64e414a8269a5b51-f8/s540x810/8a68884b615b210de0fa8b9b670b27acb4e0fded.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/04d0e41c1f1aaaaa72f8dcdccff56ea1/64e414a8269a5b51-f8/s640x960/3df99ac28da7fe00a9e1e584cef81b98b945e345.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/04d0e41c1f1aaaaa72f8dcdccff56ea1/64e414a8269a5b51-f8/s1280x1920/f4cc256b12f052690be7577951fcaf26e0b4d668.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/04d0e41c1f1aaaaa72f8dcdccff56ea1/64e414a8269a5b51-f8/s2048x3072/979924874fce78f47668f7b685e83b69d795c047.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>On hierarchy and honesty…<br/>TikvaWolf.com for commissions, books, patreon, and more</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/727648609044185088https://kimchicuddles.com/post/727648609044185088Tue, 05 Sep 2023 14:49:49 -0400hierarchynonhierarchalpolyamorycouples privilegesecondaryThanks for the inspiration, Quasi Jones! TikvaWolf.com for commissions, books, patreon, and more<div class="npf_row"><figure class="tmblr-full" data-orig-height="4848" data-orig-width="8366"><img src="https://64.media.tumblr.com/5a5b6ea8c70e64bfbf7d38b587999e8e/85acec593a82f86b-e4/s640x960/0621c53fcb0a8be2df35631b538cf9dc9a11a8cc.jpg" data-orig-height="4848" data-orig-width="8366" srcset="https://64.media.tumblr.com/5a5b6ea8c70e64bfbf7d38b587999e8e/85acec593a82f86b-e4/s75x75_c1/b368db5f09cabfb07795b2a9dd7a1d65d4e1a026.jpg 75w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/5a5b6ea8c70e64bfbf7d38b587999e8e/85acec593a82f86b-e4/s100x200/e24659fb659bce83c906c82ad4ae77c4c33271ec.jpg 100w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/5a5b6ea8c70e64bfbf7d38b587999e8e/85acec593a82f86b-e4/s250x400/eb5d1c50822245ecc6a1d9f521e67581bcc8c6f5.jpg 250w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/5a5b6ea8c70e64bfbf7d38b587999e8e/85acec593a82f86b-e4/s400x600/9b387430bafcfaa1a9ca2625d42a7f66ff1e4b45.jpg 400w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/5a5b6ea8c70e64bfbf7d38b587999e8e/85acec593a82f86b-e4/s500x750/21ba42ab73888637bea24dda33aae065551d1297.jpg 500w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/5a5b6ea8c70e64bfbf7d38b587999e8e/85acec593a82f86b-e4/s540x810/307cfd834656eb7b91194e3b0bbd020c8cc2c86d.jpg 540w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/5a5b6ea8c70e64bfbf7d38b587999e8e/85acec593a82f86b-e4/s640x960/0621c53fcb0a8be2df35631b538cf9dc9a11a8cc.jpg 640w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/5a5b6ea8c70e64bfbf7d38b587999e8e/85acec593a82f86b-e4/s1280x1920/5d70c632d4534b43ce948b4b6e20173928d44ec0.jpg 1280w, https://64.media.tumblr.com/5a5b6ea8c70e64bfbf7d38b587999e8e/85acec593a82f86b-e4/s2048x3072/1dfa5f8f2c3aaf8a8ca5e8cdc2f3da315941435e.jpg 2048w" sizes="(max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px"/></figure></div><p>Thanks for the inspiration, Quasi Jones!<br/><a href="http://tikvawolf.com/?fbclid=IwAR0AtqmzSaKYOdQ2R5u4XaXM1KSmwFU9JAKO4d-tarSrleHojHZaflhWLoc" target="_blank">TikvaWolf.com</a> for commissions, books, patreon, and more</p>https://kimchicuddles.com/post/727214192479862784https://kimchicuddles.com/post/727214192479862784Thu, 31 Aug 2023 19:44:57 -0400toxic relationshipexcusesbye Cozy red flag blankets are the BEST ways to hide things from myself!!!!! 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