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“All my relationships have been platonic for a while. And I don’t like structurally merging with people so I avoid that as much as I can afford to. "mmmm going to bed alone at 9pm!” By certain definitions, I’m single. But saying that feels dismissive of all the people I’m committed to, while calling those people “partners” implies I’m doing things I’m not doing. But I’m too old and tired to care what anyone else understands about my life now. I love the people I love and my life works for me so I don’t really need specific terms for my connections, except for the ones that make sense to me in this moment. “I’m so happy you’re here, singing-on-the-mountain partner!”“